Sex is fun when both parties enjoy it.
Getting a healthy sex life means to be balanced and both sides had to get what they want, rather than just one party only. If you feel only one side gets sexual gratification, here are some tips to help this problem resolved.
1. Discuss more often
No problem can be solved without any relationship to talk about this, except when it comes to sex. If you do not discuss what makes your problem, then you will not be able to find a resolution. I wonder if you feel he is not paying attention to your needs in bed, or do not want to try a new position that might be better and so forth. Very good to be honest about what you do not want. Balanced sex life requires ongoing dialogue.
2. Share
The key to keeping your sex life balance is to make sure you are both doing the unpleasant things to each other. One party should not be getting all the attention when you do - you have to share. Take turns so each. The main point is you both are interrelated and enjoy the experience equally.
3. Ask for what you want
If you do not get what you want or feel it does not give you what you need, do not be afraid to ask. Be gentle and wise and remember that sex is a two way street. If you are not happy, what's the point? Find a way to lead him in the direction that could work well for both of you.
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